Ok I got my results back from and my ultrasound was fine nothing different from the last everything looks fine… however all of my hormone levels are very low and I will not be able to get pregnant on my own, and there is nothing that can be done to regulate it or help. I can get something to make me have a period and something to make me ovulate though so I should still be able to get pregnant. I dont know what I want to do… I really want to have a baby but I also really want to work on my debt. I think the responsible thing to do is get married, keep my job for a while and get some of my debt paid down. After that I will start trying to get pregnant, but I want to do things right and really be ready.
Things at work are ok I am still getting used to it and the things I have to do. I think I am doing ok, I think I will do better once I get the hang of things. It is nice to actually have a job though.
September 19th, 2006 at 6:24 am
I think your idea about waiting for the baby is best. It’s awesome that there is a way for you to get pregnant, but from what I know about you, you’d rather be able to financially give the child the best life you possibly could, and it would be awesome if you and Johnny could be married too…it would be like a special wedding present for the two of you.
September 19th, 2006 at 8:16 pm
I agree that it would be best for you two to get married first and take care of that debt. Then there’s much less to worry about when you two have a baby.
I feel like I’m so ready to have a baby.. and so does my boyfriend.. but it’s so important to me to be married first. & we aren’t ready for any of it financially. If we’re married when we’re planning (in 2008), I’m hoping to start trying to have kids in late 2009 at the soonest. We’ll have our finances more straightened out and we’ll have had that alone time we’ll want after being married. We’re pretty excited about it all even though it’s a couple years away.
Whatever you decide, I hope it works out!
September 22nd, 2006 at 5:37 am
I think all you have to do is wait… Follow what you plan and it’ll all work out fine..^_^